To Anonymoize or not......that is the question!

I am really excited about telling my story. And needless to say if I was just talking about myself I most defiantly wouldn't worry about it. Anyone who knows me well basically knows everything that has happened in my life. I am an open book and love to share with people. But I have found that at times this has affected me in a negative way. It is one of my husband's biggest problems with me that he has basically leaned to live with. He seems to understand something that I do not. My view of people is a little on the naive side. I think that most people are like me. They see the good in people and ginuinly care for others and what they are going through. But now that I am getting older I am realizing it's just not the case. I believe that with God all things are possible and that He can change people. There are a lot of people in this world that do not believe in second chances and refuse to look at a situation for what it is instead of what they percieve it to be. So I'm going back and fourth......do I set up this blog so no one knows who I am or do I just lay it out there?? I wouldn't want this to ever affect my kids or my life in a negative manner. So do I just set up another blog to post all the "pretty, look how perfect my family is" stuff and then keep it real here??? Hmmmmm big decision to make.......